The truth is, I finally realized I was losing my father. But wait, I never "had" him. If not today, next week, or next year...someday he would be gone. I never realized that I thought he belonged to me. His cancer is said to be spreading by some and by others to be clearing. What I know is that he is in pain. What I know is that he is here now.
A friend walked along beside me through the woods a few nights ago. My secret tears found their way out without permission while we talked. She told me of the day her father died -- almost. The glaring details of the hospital moments, expansion of infection, and the fading of life touched a chord. I could touch the cold steel of the hospital bed, hear the beeping of monitors, and the clamor of the personnel racing to save what narrowly remained. I heard the door close behind her as she fell to her tired knees and cried out, "Lord! Save my daddy if he will bring glory to You with continued life, and take him away if he will be a dishonor Your name! He is Yours." He lives and he lives.
That's when I realized I held my daddy so close to my heart that I had not let him go. We are not supposed to carry that weight, as it does not even belong to us. We are not to "have" anyone, ever. So, I raised my hands in the woods and gave him away. So much gave way. If mental pressure gives a headache, then I have the cure.
With the phone to my cheek, I told my dad before I fell asleep that night. I told him I would be OK if he has to go...and absolutely thrilled if he can stay. God is good.
Who do you think is yours?
Hello Johanna!
ReplyDeleteThis is Eden here, and I met you at the WA homeschool conference! Bethany, my sister, showed me your blog. I just wanted to stop by and say hi! :)
~Eden
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P.S. THanks for the singing tips.. I'll be sure to put them in motion! :D
Sweet Eden! I so enjoyed meeting you at the conference, too! Let's keep in touch. :D yes, SING for the joy of it and the glory of the Lord. Love, Johanna
DeleteDear Johanna...
ReplyDeleteI didn't read your blog post until after I commented and I just wanted to say how sorry I am about your father. I have been praying for you and your family. God Bless you! My family and I will be praying for you all. And yes... I will sing for the joy and glory of God!
~Love,
Eden
:D You are so very thoughtful! Your prayers are much appreciated. Love, Johanna
DeleteJohanna,
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing of the difficult things in life so we can learn from you and uphold you in prayer. I know what it is like to deal with the illness of a parent, but I have no idea what it is like to face a parent's possible death. That thought is just too much to bear...but for the grace of God.
God has you and your father in a beautiful place of being fully surrendered to His will, and what an amazing testimony that is! How it brings glory to God for your friends, your family, and all the world to see!
Love to you and your family!
Thank you, my dear, for your kind words of thoughtfulness. I appreciate that you see no need for pity, but a great need for continued dependence upon overruling Providence and the blessed, associated grace! Love, Johanna
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